As for Milo—who previously dated costars Hayden Panettiere and Alexis Bledel—he prefers to keep his cards close to his chest when it comes to love.
As he told People in 2017, “I feel like there’s a currency to your personal life and your performance—your acting, your work. If that personal life starts to outweigh what the work is, then your work suffers.”
That’s why the Heroes star likes to keep his romantic life out of the spotlight.
“I try to minimize myself so people can see the character and can really dive into the work,” he told the outlet the same year. “I try and remain as anonymous and invisible as I can so it doesn’t take away from the experience of the men that I play. I don’t know how interesting my life is any more than anyone else’s.”
But Milo did share one lesson he’s learned while dating, telling E! News in 2016, “Be yourself. If you guys click—great. If you don’t, it’s OK. You’re not supposed to be with one another.”
His philosophy on how to make a relationship work? “Contribute as much as you’d like to take. That might be a good thing,” he added. “Don’t just take, take, take, take, take—give, give, give, give.”
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